That was when I first observed a phenomenon I now call the "New York Slide": you offer your words to try to communicate and connect with someone, but your words just hit a brick wall the person has erected to ward off human contact- the words slide down it and roll away. Kelly Cutrone
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This is where you are talking to someone about something that has just happened or something that is on your mind. You are trying to say the right thing but it doesn’t seem to be working out. The person you are talking to doesn’t seem to be interested in what you have to say so you don’t know how to continue. You keep asking yourself “What did I do wrong? How can I start this conversation over? What should I say next?”

Source: If You Have To Cry, Go Outside: And Other Things Your Mother Never Told You

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